Crossing

Active Dying

Yet today many of us are left to cross it alone, maneuvering through complex systems that are often unequipped to hold the depth and mystery of this threshold.

During active dying, my role is to create a sacred container where the unknown guides the way. Just as a birth doula offers steady support during labor, I accompany dying people and their loved ones through the liminal rhythms of death. 

Active dying has been tended to with ritual, reverence,
and Earthbound wisdom for thousands of years.

As a death doula, I guide individuals through dying, grief, and remembrance with a heart-centered, nature-rooted approach. From pet loss to existential fear, my practice blends intuitive presence with ritual care—offered in-person across the Southwes
  • Sunlight shining through a natural rock arch over the ocean with misty water in the foreground.

    Holding Vigil

    For thousands of years, communities have gathered around the dying to hold vigil. In many traditions, being with the dying is not only a gesture of love, but a sacred duty. My offerings include (but are not limited to):

    • Providing bedside presence during active dying

    • Curating an environment that aligns with the person’s death plan and wishes (lighting, music, scent, natural elements) 

    • Support with readings, gentle touch, prayers and more

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    Ceremony & Ritual

    Ceremony and ritual invite us to pause, witness, and honor what is happening. I support dying people and their families in crafting personalized, heart guided rituals that bring meaning and continuity through the death process. 

    • Personalized altar creation, ritual, and ceremony during active dying

    • Grounded, Earth-centered practices for both the dying person and their loved ones 

    • Guided visualizations, meditations, and energetic support

  • A campfire burning on a beach at dusk with the ocean in the background and a partly cloudy sky overhead.

    Family Support

    The phase of active dying is an intense time for families & loved ones. My role is to help those nearby remain connected to all that is unfolding emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. This may involve:

    • Education about what to expect in the active dying phase 

    • Engagement and connection practices that honor your unique relationships and family dynamics

    • Facilitating group ceremonies, nature-based practices, and processing circles

Reach out anytime.

Whether you are facing death or caring for someone who is, support is available.

I strive to respond to inquiries within 1-2 business days.